Carrie’s closet? Well-stocked AND it runneth over.
I’m building a better wardrobe. So some of the big questions I’ve been asking myself are: How do you determine how to stock your closet? How much is enough? How much becomes too much?
When I look at my closet, somehow I know what’s there isn’t enough. But when does it become enough and at what point it becomes too much.
As I’m working on losing weight, the quantity and quality aren’t quite as important to me. Having fewer and less expensive pieces means I’m not investing too much in something I may not be able to wear again. But if you remain in a solid size range, how do you figure out how much you should own?
Math’s not my strong point, but I’m beginning the equation by figuring out what I don’t own (or don’t own enough of). There are some pieces that are practically non-existent in my closet–or I wear through them so quickly that I’m always on the search for the newest one.
Keeping in mind my goals for building a better wardrobe, I’ve identified a few gaps and much needed items:
- Weather appropriate shoes: It’s amazing how easy it is NOT to buy shoes that are weather appropriate. Women’s summer shoes? In a land where four months is 100 degree weather and the rest of the year is 60-90, how do I not own a simple pair of sandals, but own two pairs of furry winter boots?
- A solid and varying wardrobe of flats: I wear flats 95% of the time. It’s been a fantasy of mine to own a lovely, fabulous pair of flats in each color of my wardrobe palette (red, purple, teal, blue, green, black, nude, grey, and navy) and a few pairs that were in playful patterns (snakeskin, floral, leopard, plaid, or polka dot, for examples).
- Cardigans & sweaters: For NOLA winters, these are essential (and much cuter alternatives to the hoodies I have a fondness of sticking to!). While solid colors are a necessity, fun ones can also have their place in a wardrobe– like this broken heart cardigan, a sweater with heart elbow patches or a panda sweater. They’re two-tone, with a simple graphic or print that keeps them from being “to boring,” yet aren’t so pattern heavy they’re difficult to mix and match.
- Great trousers – of the non (blue) denim and not “work” kind. I still own one pair of pants from my “skinnier” days. They’re charcoal grey with a black and pink plaid through them. They were the first thing I bought at Urban Outfitters after I’d lost a lot of weight, were clam digger length, and I adored them. I miss a great pair of trousers that can go from class with a t-shirt and flats to the club with a t-shirt, stilettos, and smokey eye.
- Playful, pretty blouses. A few years ago, I banned graphic tees from my wardrobe. And while I own a few now (mostly for kickin’ at home and working out), I love a great blouse that again — can go from a day at work to a date night with a change of accessories. When paired with jeans, hey’re an instant way to feel more put together. These are all on my wishlist: lace peplum blouse; pintuck blouse with 3/4 sleeve; Carousel blouse; and Swanning Around Blouse.
- Easy going skirts. I own a few skirts. Mostly ones with elastic waists that make me feel like a chicken, or “interview” skirts, and a couple with awkward waist bands that never fit right. I love the mix and match abilities of separates, but finding the right ones is so hard! I want a couple cotton jersey skirts for summer (similar to these: only shame on you Old Navy for making them so thin they’re see through! Though the lovely Mel at Full Bodied Fashion heard my cries and found these great plus-size convertible skirts from Land’s End). Maybe a perfect pleated skirt; a great tweed or herringbone. A few that are flippy and cute–but mostly, just skirts that are easy to wear and fit well!
Looking at that list, it’s A LOT. There are a few items in my closet I can stop stockin’ up on: pretty dresses, accessories (necklaces and scarves in particular), workout t-shirts (event freebies are great!), socks and tights. While having a great selection of jeans would be amazing, I can make do during the weight-loss period with about 2 pairs.
As I hunt for these items, I plan on sharing them (and soon, 10 not-so boring basics!)– and likewise, if you have a great source for skirts like that Old Navy one? PUH-LEASE pass it along my way!
So let’s chat:
- What do you own in excess of (or not enough of)?
- What gaps are missing in your closet?



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My closet needs a serious makeover. When I got a new job in 2010 I built a great wardrobe for winter/early spring…and then I gained weight. And now I hate my closet. Sigh…I swear it’s always a work in progress.
DWJ´s last [type] ..A Weekend in Brooklyn
YES. LADY. I so hear you on this. I feel like my closet was so amazing in grad school (so 2006-08) and then I gained weight– and just never cared to get it that amazing again. I’ve hated it ever since (along with the weight gain), so I’m doing something about it, dog-gone-it!
I got rid of hoodies and graphic tees too! I’m 33. There just comes a time when you have to get rid of the kiddie crap.
Trousers – I have 3 pairs but I never wear em and I don’t know why! Oh and thrift stores are amazing for trousers. I got a pair of $95 NWT Banana Republic wool blends for $4. All 3 are from thrift stores actually.
I have way too many heels and dresses. I never wear them.
Nice blouses have been what I’m working on these days – just a nice alternative to a v-neck tee and honestly, they hold up better. Most of them are made of some poly/rayon blend so they wash well and don’t pill or shrink!
“I got rid of hoodies and graphic tees too! I’m 33. There just comes a time when you have to get rid of the kiddie crap.” Yes, totally! I still love hoodies for a cold & cozy afternoon at home (but isn’t a lush sweater nicer?), and graphic tees for the gym– and the gym alone.
I wish I could thrift easily! Problem is a size 18/20 + very picky style… so I just don’t bother trying, to be very honest. But if I can get back to my target weight, I would absolutely go that route!
“I have way too many heels and dresses.” — yes! I’m guilty of both. I’m finding that a jersey dress? I’ll wear those daily in the summer, because they’re easy. But I own so many “nice” dresses, and those I find a lot harder to wear daily…
Thrift stores are def frustrating so I end up grabbing about 5 pairs in a huge range of sizes and maybe one will fit right. I never go there looking for anything in particular since that NEVER works… everything just been a lucky accident when I had the time to dig.
Lara´s last [type] ..recent manis
Weather appropriate shoes is a big one – comfort is so important in footwear.
For Those About To Shop´s last [type] ..Build A Sign business cards
It really is! As I belatedly respond, I picked up 2 pairs of sandals… and lawd did it make the end of summer that much more bearable!
I’m one of those “always” people. As in I’m always shopping – or other things like always going out to dinner, but shopping fits this post.
I’ve been working at my job for 5 years now and I’ve gained twenty pounds because I’m lazy and have a desk job. I’ve been trying since February to lose some weight (I think the dinners are killing this idea), but haven’t lost anything. So I haven’t really been buying a lot of clothes. I buy select pieces, but, now that its summer, my wardrobe LACKS anything summer. 3 tank tops that fit and one pair of shorts that fit (i wore my favorite jeans out and made cutoffs).
I just don’t want to spend the money on tank tops because my weight deters me from even wanting to show off my arms. The battle at the gym will resume before I start filling in those gaps.
Kat Skull´s last [type] ..These Are More ‘Art’ Than ‘Cup’…
Kat, I totally feel you! I’m always shopping too: whether it’s spending money at the grocery store or e-window shopping for high heels I don’t need.
It’s also so comforting to have someone in a similar boat– the desk job kills my movement and keeps my body lethargic. It makes battling the bulge so much harder! And who wants to invest money in a body they don’t feel good in? (Which I find for me, perpetuates the bad feelings: I don’t look nice, so I feel down. I feel down, so I don’t work out. I don’t work out, because I want to lose weight. I don’t buy new clothes, because I want to lose weight. Cycle! Vicious Cycle!)
(Ps– sorry for the way too late response!)
If you haven’t tried them yet, check out Eloquii for skirts. They are the plus size line from Limited. The Limited usually has great sales, so I am assuming Eloquii will too. I also love the stuff at Asos, New York and Co and Forever21 plus. I know people say their quality is horible but I have pieces that I bought there two years ago that are still in great shape. They offer nice well made skirts you just have to watch the length. There is always more on their site than in the local store, so I just order when it’s free shipping and return whatever doesn’t work.
On another note, I know my closet is too full when I can’t hang up anything else. I switch out from cold to warm weather stuff, and one season’s worth needs to fit in the closet on about 4 feet of hanging space. If the hangers don’t move around, then I know I have to clean it out. I tend to buy too many cardigans and never have enough t-shirts. It’s like I’m allergic to t-shirts because I might own 3 or 4 and then a band tee.
Sarah/Destrehan’s Daughter´s last [type] ..Polish Be Gone
I admit, I tried a few Eloquii sweaters last winter, and the sizing was so off that I haven’t ordered from them again. That being said, they always have such beautiful pieces. I really wish they were shops in the mall like The Limited is! (AND LAWD. ASOS is my biggest nightmare because I want to spend 500 million dollars there.)
Getting ready to move to New Orleans (and only taking what fits in my Ford Focus), I recently did the wardrobe purge of all wardrobe purges. Like holy hell I got rid of a lot of shit.
I’ve spent the last year focusing on a more cohesive, and classic personal style. I know what work for me, why continue to stray. I don’t go to clubs – so out are all the short, tight, and shiny dresses that are only appropriate in Vegas. I’ve been clinging to about 40 dumb t-shirts that I never wear – see ya later.
I’ve been focusing on understated, vintage-bombshell pieces in electric blue, burnt orange, purple, green, tan, and white – no more pinks and florals (literally I had over 50 floral sundresses). I love fringe, lace, leather, and tribal-esque accessories. I try and land somewhere between Joan from Mad Men, Stevie Nicks, and my friend’s hipster girlfriend.
Jillian, I LOVE your style! It sounds so vivid, playful, and fun.
And welcome to New Orleans! I know I’m behind (I swear I thought I had caught up to replying), so I hope the city is treating you well, and hopefully if you were here for Isaac it wasn’t too unkind!
Also: I know what work for me, why continue to stray. I really love that. While I thinking there’s always wiggle room for experimenting, keeping tons of pieces you won’t wear? Why take up the room?!