This post was originally written in October 2008, and has been edited & updated with new links and information. As we approach Spring & Summer, and we shed our winter boots, knee socks, and tights for lighter attire, I thought this information would be worth sharing again!
The phenomenon around Sex and the City has taken the popularity of high heels and skyrocketed them to new heights. More then ever, high heels have become a fashion statement unto themselves, with each season bringing about more shocking, more vibrant, and more amazing shoes than their predecessors.
But a three or four inch shoe can be daunting. And many cannot even begin to fathom the greater heights, as we push ourselves in to 4 1/2, 5, or 6 inch heels. With the pursuit of vanity (and great gams) comes warnings, fears, and frights.
Basics for Beginners
- If you’re just starting out, chances are that after your first day in a higher heel, your tendons, the ball of your foot, and ankles may be sore. I recommend having shoes of a variety of heights, and switching them out throughout the week. Start with a moderate heel (2.5″), and then the next day work up to a 3.5″ heel. Follow it up with a flat if your feet are feeling strained– if they’re not, try taking it up to a 4″! Be sure to follow this day up with a pair of flats, to give yourself time to rest and adjust. By rotating shoes in your daily routine, you’ll also help prevent the shrinkage of your Achilles’ Tendon!
- Every thing is in the fit! Experts agree, you need: enough room for your piggies to wiggle around; a toe box that is not too snug; make sure your heel isn’t slipping out of the back (I find this can be a result of the shoe’s arch and height, as well. If it’s not a fit issue, try the Dr. Scholl’s stick’ems.). To make sure you’re getting these all right, walk around a LOT!
- And don’t forget– most leather shoes CAN be stretched a certain amount in the footbed… so if they’re a wee too snug and you can’t live without them, take them to a good cobbler! (You should love your shoes enough to take them to a cobbler anyhow.) This is extra important because as you walk and distribute your weight, your toes need to be able to spread enough to take shock and place the weight on the ball of your feel.
- It’s all a balancing act! One of the most common problems (I know I’m guilty of it as well), is learning how to shift your balance. If you were to stand upright barefooted, most of your weight would be on the your heels. This does not change if you are in heels.

Tricks of the Trade
- The Breast of the shoe is the inner arch where the stiletto meets the bottom of your foot. This area affects stability; the farther forward the arch is, the more stability you will have. For more information, read Poochie’s guest post at Broke & Beautiful on the anatomy of a shoe!
- Insolia offers “Weight Shifter” inserts, which help redistribute the weight back off the ball of your foot and back on to the heel. Similarly, I have found no inserts that compare to Footpetals, for adding cushion to the ball of your foot, preventing them from sliding, or adding an overall insert. I’ve got packages of them for back-up!
- Strengthen your muscles! Thanks to the Faux Beau & his Wii Fit, I’m convinced that the “Palm Tree” pose in Yoga is an excellent means of developing your balance and strengthening your ankles and stretching your spine. Directions on how to do this pose. For a variation, you can always keep your feet together.
- Other recommended techniques**: For stronger ankles, stand next to a wall, extend one leg in front of you, and circle your foot at the ankle in both directions. Repeat 10 times per foot. Use a calf machine or a step to raise yourself on to your toes, hold, and lower; this will strengthen your calves and Achilles Tendon. For stronger toes, place a corks between them and squeeze as tightly as possible for 10 seconds. Similarly, to tighten your arches, place marbles on the ground and pick them up with your toes. Deposit in to a bowl. Be sure that you are sitting while you do this, or you’re likely to injure yourself more than if you’d worn heels in the first place.
** Techniques recommended from “In Style Magazine, October 2006.”
Not So Pretty, Nitty Gritty
- One of the biggest concerns against heels is the potential for foot damage. When the foot is forced in to the upright position over a long-term, the Achilles Tendon has the potential to shorten. This may cause the wearer to feel discomfort when the wear flat or low heels (in this position, our tendon is longer). There are doctors who say that if you can limit yourself to wearing heels for less than 12 hours a day, and wearing supportive shoes, like sneakers, the remainder of the time, you’ll decrease the likelihood of this happening.
- An improperly designed toe box can cause the toes to cram together. This can lead to blisters, corns, bunions, hammer toes, and other long-term ailments. So make sure your toes have room to lay in their normal position to decrease this happening. Give those piggies wiggle room!
- According to our good friend Wikipedia, “…a few podiatrists recommend well-constructed low to moderate heels for some patients. It appears a slight elevation of the heel improves the angle of contact between the metatarsals and the horizontal plane, thereby more closely approximating the proper angle and resulting in proper weight distribution of a medium-to-high-arched foot.”
- I practice running (yes, running) in a new pair of heels. Nothing fancy, or really more than a real sprint, but I ALWAYS make sure I can do a little jog in them. I like to practice this in the kitchen.
Extras for Experts:
- Jennine offers some excellent tips on learning to walk in heels! (Be sure to check out the comments, too!)
- The lovely Gala Darling provides some insight as well! (I’ll second her comments about NOT driving in heels, wedges, or platforms–it’s tres difficile!
- Princess Poochie knows heels! And therefore you should get to know her tips on how to wear them.
- Thank you, Wendy B. for this amazing article from the Wall Street Journal!
- Exercises for Wearing High Heels includes tips for a dancer for getting your feet flexible, comfortable, and able to walk in those high heels!
- A Girl’s Guide to High Heels: How to Walk in Heels at College Fashion. See parts 2 and 3 as well!











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The above ideas are great for those venturing out from flats to heels. I’ve kinda just done the reverse. I usually wear platforms cos they’re like wearing flats…but today I went out and actually bought a pair of shoes and a pair of boots that are only ~7cm, which is low for me!
(BTW, we in the southern hemisphere have just gone into autumn, and WE are looking forward to putting ON layers…and exciting footwear like boots!)
.-= trashtastika´s last blog ..Yamanote Line fashion – Shibuya to Shinjuku, Tokyo and beyond =-.
Oh girl, in 2 months I’ll be DYING to put on some layers… New Orleans “summers” always have lasted far too long for my liking!
I *always!* drive to my destination in flats and then change into my heels, wedges, or platforms once I park. It’s just safer, not only in terms of driving, but also in case the car breaks down and some walking is required. ;]
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As a 5’8″ girl, my center of gravity seems to be all out of whack once I had 3 inch heels, sigh. So this is exactly what I need to overcome my stiletto fear :)
I’m currently trying to learn to walk in narrow heels. I can handle chunky heels up to around 3.5″ but when they get spikey I start to fear them! Therefore, I bought my training heels! 99p from eBay and only to be worn around the house, I’ve put gel pads in the toes and tie them on with scarves around my ankles so they stay on snugly!
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Great tips…and exactly when I needed them. I very recently got a pair of 4.5 inch heels which are a little higher than what I’ve ever really worn. I have yet to venture out of the house in them. These tips will definitely help. Thanks for the great post!
XO Piper
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Thanks for these tips. I love wearing heels but often struggle to walk in them. Glad I am not the only one who changes shoes for the journey home.
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Girl, I’m so jealous. I developed plantar fasciitis a few years ago and have had major problems with it almost constantly. I haven’t worn heels in years. It’s soooo sad!
.-= Sonja´s last blog ..Shu Uemura Spring 2010 Égérie Collection: Sparkling, rock star chic (with makeup lesson video) =-.
Yikes, honey! :( But it’s probably better that you’re avoiding them, because I imagine that some women who develop it still wear heels… and the damage they must be doing…
Thank you so much for this guide, I love, love, love high heels but they do not love my feet–I’m always struggling in heels higher then 2″ *sadface*
.-= Kemi @ Chronicles of Kemi´s last blog ..Dammit–I twisted my ankle.. =-.
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