Treating Myself for 27

by Ashe on July 13, 2010

Today’s my 27th birthday. It kind of snuck up on me– for the past few years, I’ve kind of forgotten how old I am.  So when I realized it was my 27th birthday, I had a bit of a panic attack.  Where did it come from?! How did I get here already?

I tend to splurge on myself at Christmas and my birthday–so many of my family & loved ones never know what to buy me, that I’d rather they buy me dinner or give me money, and leave the shopping to me.  I can’t help but want to splurge, and this birthday was no different.

I don’t typically go as all out as I did this year… but after the fact I realized… I’ve been through a LOT since my last birthday.  Moving back to New Orleans and settling in after the disrupt of Hurricane Katrina almost 5 years ago; moving across country with only the help of Miss Malaprop to take a new job; the beau and I got back together; I’m working in a job with a lot of responsibility, that’s often stressful and filled with 70 hour weeks, on top of trying to keep myself by blogging, sewing, being social, etc.

It’s been a big year, and one where I’ve proven that I’m not only a big girl, but a pretty damn good at being a grown up.
So grown up treats were in order.  I don’t often showcase a lot of my purchases on here, so showcasing such spendy pieces feels weird.  But I did I get them both for steals…

chloe sunglasses, chloe tilia sunglasses, cats eye sunglasses, designer sunglasses, chloe sunglasses on ideeli
Chloe Tilia Sunglasses from Ideeli.  I love the plum color, as it works in my wardrobe palette, while being a softer alternative than black.  I’m really OBSESSED with the oversized cats eye shape of late.  I think it’s really kind of timeless, though we didn’t see it much before this past season.  It’s a great, funky alternative to oversized glasses, which I religiously love & live in.

hayden harnett, hayden harnett biblio bag, black leather hobo, black leather bag
Hayden Harnett was having it’s annual Big Bang Sale recently… The above bag was on sale for about 30% off… coupled with an additional 20% Friends & Family discount & a store credit I had… made this a sweet deal.  Then the mamacita chipped in some money, and I got it for the sweetest song.

Hayden Harnett is the company that MADE me a bag girl.  They’re regularly the only company whose collections excite me, even though this past season wasn’t the most thrilling. (Though the season before? Sweet Zeus save my credit cards from misery!)  This bag is no exception…. soft, supple leather. 4 internal pockets, 2 exterior pockets, and a hidden pocket.  I love that the braided handle and tassles add some hipness and funk to the bag.  But as you can see, the can be removed for a really beautiful, simple black bag… Plus that funky little square doubles as a card holder!

What I especially love is that they were birthday treats that will see me through the next 20 birthdays!

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WendyB July 13, 2010 at 6:06 pm

Happy birthday! Try to feel young because you’re going to look back on this and be like “OMG! I WAS SO YOUNG!”
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Ashe Mischief July 13, 2010 at 6:07 pm

Oh, I definitely feel young! I think that’s why I’m panicking…. like, am I supposed to feel young at 27? Act and dress young? But I’m 27, that’s not young! (God, it is, I know.)

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GypsyRhapsody July 13, 2010 at 6:07 pm

Love the Chloe sunglasses!
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Andrea July 13, 2010 at 6:11 pm

Happy BIrthday, Friend! You look FAB in the sunglasses-and I love your new purse!

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Ashe Mischief July 16, 2010 at 11:10 am

Thank you, bebe! I knew you’d be proud of me ;D

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grechen July 13, 2010 at 6:35 pm

you GOT THEM!!! now i wish i’d gotten them too…they look AMAZING on you. seriously.
and happy birthday :)
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Ashe Mischief July 14, 2010 at 12:08 am

I DID!!! I’m so bad. After finding out my car repair was half of what I expected it to be, I was like, THE HELL WITH IT! and ordered them D: I love them. I was thrilled when I went in the bathroom and they looked good one!

Thank you thank you!

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Ellie Di July 13, 2010 at 6:37 pm

HAAAAAAAAPPYYYYY BIIIIIRTHDAAAAYYYYY! <3
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DWJ July 13, 2010 at 7:32 pm

Oh happy birthday and I adore the sunglasses. Very chic indeed!
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Grit and Glamour July 13, 2010 at 8:49 pm

Happy birthday! I totally love your treats to yourself. Great choices. It’s good to splurge now and then, especially on quality pieces procured at heavily discounted prices. They will serve you well.

Hope you had a fabulous day!

♥ V

http://www.gritandglamour.com
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Ashe Mischief July 16, 2010 at 11:11 am

Thank you, V! I definitely agree on how & when to splurge. I think these are really great pieces, and I look forward to having them & loving them for a long time… nothing beats a bag that will last forever. My last HH bag I’ve been using for about 20 months now, and it’s still beautiful.

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Fajr | Stylish Thought July 13, 2010 at 8:55 pm

Happy Birthday boo!!!! Enjoy it!
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x Corrine/Frock & Roll x July 13, 2010 at 9:45 pm

Happy birthday, beautiful! Have a fantastic day and congratulations on your purchase, what a lovely pair of sunglasses!
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Alicia July 13, 2010 at 10:42 pm

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, ASHE!!!!!

Gorgeous glasses. The color is just beautiful.
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Ashe Mischief July 16, 2010 at 11:11 am

<3

Isn't it? An unusual choice it feels, but a good one.

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Amy July 14, 2010 at 1:49 am

Happy birthday!!!

Both purchases are great because they’ll get you through many years – and I’m so impressed by that. If I’m handed a lot of money, I kind of spend willy nilly without thought. This may be a splurge but it’s responsible!
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Ashe Mischief July 16, 2010 at 11:12 am

There was definitely some impulse behind them, especially the glasses. But I think they were definitely responsible choices!

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Sandra @ DebutanteClothing July 14, 2010 at 3:27 am

I Tweeted you but not sure you saw it so…

Happy Birthday!!!

Love your birthday presents to yourself. And you are still VERY young.

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Trishna July 14, 2010 at 10:00 am

Happy Birthday to you. I love the sunglasses. :)
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birdie July 14, 2010 at 10:27 am

GAWWWW I LOVE THEM BOTH!

Also, 27 feels old, yet not old. I don’t know. I’m on the fence about it.
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Ashe Mischief July 14, 2010 at 10:36 am

Yesssss. Old and not yet old. It’s a weird place to be.

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Laura Kim Connell July 14, 2010 at 1:22 pm

Oh, Baby, you’re so young. All the best years are ahead of you!

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Ashe Mischief July 16, 2010 at 11:44 am

I know! I feel young… I guess that happens when a lot of my friends have a decade on me though… I kind of forget my age and how I’m supposed to act….

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Lindsay July 14, 2010 at 5:33 pm

OH MY GOSH, those sunglasses! They’re perfect!!!
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megan July 14, 2010 at 9:28 pm
laura July 14, 2010 at 10:52 pm

happy birthday! well done buying yourself things that you want and love – i generally think that wear-it-everyday (or really often) functional accessories are the perfect place to invest. the shades are amazing and look great on you.

x

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Ashe Mischief July 16, 2010 at 11:43 am

I absolutely agree! This is why I tend to invest the pennies in my black flats, snow boots, a nice bag– all the functional pieces I NEED to hold up through wear and tear….

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Brit Hawk July 15, 2010 at 1:04 am

I bought these same shades from ideeli. Mine haven’t made it through the mail yet, but I’m soo glad you posted a pic of you in them. I’ll be beyond excitement to get mine :D
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Ashe Mischief July 16, 2010 at 11:42 am

Oh, I hope you love yours as much as I love mine! Did you get the plum or one of the other two colors?

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amy July 15, 2010 at 9:44 am

happy belated birthday!!!
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mlle ghoul July 15, 2010 at 11:20 am

Bon Anniversaire!

Although I am signed up with an account for ideeli, gilt group, etc – I have never once purchased a single thing from any of them. How have your experiences been with those sites?

That is quite a lovely bag – although I am not a “bag lady” I was ALMOST turned by Isabella Fiore and her elegant, baroque aesthetic. Right now I am quite in love with her “Tattoo Collection”, and here is a lovely example : http://www.pursepage.com/isabella-fiore-bags/isabella-fiore-liz-tattoo-handbag.html
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Ashe Mischief July 16, 2010 at 11:39 am

Her bags are so lovely! Thank you for sharing them….

I had mixed feelings at first with the members only sites. I wrote two posts on them:
http://www.mischiefmydear.com/dramatispersonae/2009/members-only-shopping-sites-gilt-ideeli-rue-la-l/
http://www.mischiefmydear.com/dramatispersonae/2009/gilt-review/

I should probably update them, as I’ve done more shopping with them all over the year & half since writing them, and have some new thoughts…

Overall, I think if you have an idea what you want, or are willing to spend, and can afford it, I think they can be great alternatives. They have their “dangerous side” I think, but overall I think the benefits for Gilt & Ideeli outweigh the cons…

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Chandra (@ShiftC) July 15, 2010 at 12:11 pm

WOohoooOoo! I love your birthday purchases. Those sunglasses are fabulous!

It’s funny; as the years go by each birthday is a time of reflection. As a child the anticipation for each birthday was unbearable. I can’t say that I get mopey and dread each birthday, because I feel truly blessed as each day goes by. However, I do find time to sit, think, plan and make some changes in my own life.

I’m sorry my birthday comment is so late, but here’s to the next 27 years!!

Chandra
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Ashe Mischief July 16, 2010 at 11:15 am

Thank you SO much, Chandra! Your comment was so lovely and thoughtful. Each day IS a blessing, esp a day of more experiences & life….

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lisa July 15, 2010 at 3:39 pm

Happy birthday! Birthdays are always more fun accompanied by splurge purchases, aren’t they? My family stopped giving me presents because they didn’t know what to get me, but I like to buy myself something special every year. Anyhoo, hope your day was filled with laughter, love and celebration.
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Ashe Mischief July 16, 2010 at 11:13 am

Thank you, Lisa! My friends & family DEFINITELY don\’t know what to buy… a close girlfriend was like, “You’re really hard to shop for, you know that?\” It\’s still nice to celebrate though…. I’ll have food and wine with them, save the spending for myself ;D

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Steff July 15, 2010 at 6:45 pm

I’m in love with those sunglasses. My birthday is in two weeks, I might have to treat myself as well.

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Ashe Mischief July 16, 2010 at 11:14 am

Now is the time–there are so many great deals on sunglasses right now! Maybe the time of year?

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Sonja July 16, 2010 at 4:40 pm

Happy Happy Happy Birthday to youuuuuuuuu! Love the great stuff you treated yourself to, especially the bag. OMG, LOVE the bag! I don’t know how you keep up with the blogging on top of 70-hour workweeks. You are Super Blogger Woman!!! :D

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Mary July 17, 2010 at 6:57 pm

Happy b-lated B-day woman!!!! Congratulations on your eventful year and handling it all in stride and (of course) style! Things only get better as you get older, I think!
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Emily July 20, 2010 at 8:17 pm

Those sunglasses truly are wonderful, and plum is a great “neutral” of sorts. I would invest in those too! Well, actually not, because I don’t have a very good track record with sunglasses, but I would definitely invest in knock-offs!
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Shaz October 24, 2010 at 1:13 am

You look GORGEOUS in those Chloe Tilia sunglasses, is that the 2180 or 2181 model? I love the cat eye shape and that color is so perfectly different. I am getting them now after seeing them on you, they look so amazing :)

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Alison @ Femita February 5, 2011 at 7:35 am

Those Chloe sunglasses are just breathtaking and they are perfect for this summer as retro butterfly sunglasses will be the next big thing!
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